I was talking with a coworker who also just visited Spain, and we both agreed on how much we enjoyed it there. We found the culture is just very welcoming. Whenever I think about why I always enjoy visiting Spain, I usually attribute some of it to being able to speak a bit of Spanish and connect with the locals. However, after talking to my coworker—who doesn’t speak Spanish—I’m starting to think it’s more about the Spanish culture itself… and probably the food.
While I was there, I learned a new phrase: “sobremesa.” It literally translates to “upon the table,” but it refers to the tradition of relaxing at the table after a meal and enjoying conversation. Other cultures have similar traditions, like sharing tea or coffee, but I don’t think this is really something we do in America. Americans might see it as a waste of time or prefer to watch TV or play games instead.
For me, traditions like sobremesa might explain why I like Spain. Many of their customs seem centered on actually getting to know people and worrying less. Of course, there are trade-offs—like their more relaxed work culture, which might impact innovation or economic growth. But it makes me wonder: which country has happier people? One like the US where we have advanced technology but maybe more of a “busy” life, or one like Spain that is more relaxed?
A quick search reveals mixed answers, and I guess that makes sense. Happiness is kind of hard to measure. What makes one person happy in one place might not work for someone else in another. Still, I’m glad I grew up in the U.S., where I’ve developed a mindset of constantly trying to improve—whether it’s in my work or hobbies. I’m not sure I’d have the same drive if I had grown up somewhere else. It’s probably a mix of a bunch of factors, but I think being American plays a big role. It makes me wonder how different would I be if I’d grown up in a different culture?